5 Tips for Improving Your Chances on Swinger Dating Sites

If you’re interested in the swinging lifestyle, there are plenty of exciting swinger dating websites to explore. You’ll find thousands of like-minded couples who are waiting to hear from you, all at the click of a few buttons! But sometimes making the right connections can be hard, so we’ve a few top tips to help improve your chances of finding amiable swingers online…

1: Group chats

Often overlooked, group chats and forums are a fantastic way to meet couples (or singles and groups) who share your fetishes. And what better place, than a group chat, to talk about group sex? Swinger dating websites often offer tools to help you chat to multiple members at once, and the chats are usually themed. So, whatever tickles your fancy, you should be able to find a group chat about that topic. If not, why not create your own chat room to lure other open-minded members to join you?

2: Photos and videos

Perhaps even more so than other dating websites, swingers sites can be a great place to get up close and personal with members. Look for dating sites which offer private photo collection opens (through which you can create an adult or explicit photo collection, shared only with people who have your permission to view its contents) and video options. The latter may allow you to chat with members in real-time, so you can get a proper look at what’s on offer. Video features might also be useful for producing a personal introduction to your profile, or even just to get a sense of what a member (or members) might be like if you were to meet in the flesh.

3: Reviews and feedback

It might be the case that you can leave feedback, comments and ratings on other members’ content. So, if you really love their photos or videos, or what they have to say on leather, partner swapping or anything in between, it’s easy to let them know. Exploring profiles and leaving comments is a useful way of getting other members to notice you. If you’re complimentary, they’re likely to take a look at your profile and return the favor, thus quickly establishing a friendly (and potentially erotic) rapport.

4: Parties and events calendars

Swingers are often great when it comes to throwing a party! Check out a dating site’s events pages, where you can often find officially-run events and unofficial parties organized by members. You can find swinging parties near you, which may or may not require an invite. You might also find out who else is attending the party, so you can plan on hooking-up whilst there. Or why not throw your own party and invite a few of your favorite members along? The site will do all the work of helping you to get in touch with other swingers, taking a lot of the hassle out of the organization.

5: Varied interests

Swingers may have a wide array of sexual and non-sexual interests which they want to explore. As such, being open to a variety of hobbies and activities can be a really useful way to make sure you’re on their radar. When a member performs a search, they will probably choose sexual preferences, and if you aren’t a match then you won’t appear in their results. As such, revisit your profile options now and again, and select any interests you have, as this will improve the likelihood of appearing in another member’s search results.

The lowdown…

Exploring the social aspects of a swinger dating website is a great way to make new friends, and to find like-minded members. Becoming actively involved in the communities made available will show that you’re interested in people, that you’re fun to hang out with, and that you respect the choices of others. Once you’ve been noticed, you can get to know each other more intimately using the site’s communication and events tools, and then who knows where things may lead…